Life’s Events

I have been missing this week and I am sorry for that.  Did I mention a few weeks ago when I started back doing some blogging that I could not guarantee constancy as life changes at a moments notice???

Well I had in the back of my mind that I may end up having surgery on my shoulder as at the time I was going to physical therapy with no improvement of my shoulder, in fact it worsened.

So how did I injure my left shoulder?

  • In December (1 week after my husband left) I was stretching my daughter’s tights for ballet in a bathroom stall and my left hand slipped and flew backwards up by my head hitting the stall door.  Then two weeks later while taking my daughter out to the bus I slipped on the front porch and grabbed the railing with (of course my left arm) to stop myself from falling and hyper extended my arm back again but this time around my waist.  Needless to say both time I experienced EXCRUCIATING PAIN.  Being the single and well STUBBORN women I am I ignored it for a month but the pains was to great, 8 weeks of physical therapy, MRI and here I am.

What have I injured?

How to fix my shoulder:

  • My Dr. the day of the surgery needs to see the extent of the damage to determine one of two options.
  • To Start Off With – I am going to start of with having a nerve block in my neck to put my arm to sleep. I have to be awake  for this procedure so I can  communicate that I have no feeling in my arm. My doctor has to do that because even though I will be a sleep for the surgery my nerve will be awake and as my shoulder is so painful it will still communicate message to the joint and the muscles. So he needs to put the nerves asleep to be able to move my arm freely.
  • Option 1 – Drill holes into the bone and have “tie downs” instead over the tear and time it down to the bone. Then have to grind away bone to make it bleed to stimulate circulation to help facilitate healing. Recovery 5-6 months and I may end up with a frozen shoulder. DOES NOT SOUND LIKE A GOOD OPTION TO ME!
  • Option 2 – If the tendon that attaches to my bicep is also torn (which is putting pressure on the tear) is bad the only solution is to cut the tendon and relocate it to the outer aspect of my shoulder. Recovery 3-4 months and I may end up still not having full range of motion.

What that means

Well seeing as the surgery is less that 2 weeks away (May 7th) this single mom has 1001 things to get done:

  • Make plans for my daughter to stay with her dad 2 weeks post surgery
  • Get Elmer the Basset Hound groomed and to the vet for his allergy shot
  • Clean out the flower beds for spring
  • Grocery shopping
  • Find people to mow my 2 acre for a while
  • Shopping to find a comfy bra (cuz I won’t be able to have much pressure on my shoulder)
  • Get my guest bedroom ready for my mom to stay to help me out
  • and…and…and…and

So needless to say

  • I won’t be blogging again for a while
  • When I can I will update you all here.
  • Wish me luck and I hope to be chatting with you all soon!

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You Will Be Missed Doug RIP

by admin on April 10, 2013

I am sad to tell you all that my father-in law passed away suddenly Monday evening.

Doug a.k.a “Big Doug”  was a loving, kind, and gentle man.  Kristina and her “Papa” were so very…very close.  It will be difficult to no longer have him on this earthly world.

Love you and miss you.

Wendy

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OMG WORMS!

by admin on April 10, 2013

Taking my daughter out this morning to the catch the bus to find my driveway filled with icky and smelling worms YUCK!

My daughter Kristina (and I) were so creeped out with all of the worms in a drive way.  We very carfully tip toed to the end of the driveway making sure not to step on any.

I wonder why this happens?  Do you have a bunch of worms in your driveway/side walk?

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My Daughter’s 1st Day Of School!

by admin on September 6, 2012

 

Kristina’s 1st day of Kindergarten so PROUD of her!  She waited so patiently.  When she saw the bus I thought she was going to explode with excitement!  She walked right on sat down like she has been doing it forever!

Once the bus drove away her father and I cried.  So hard to believe the precious gifts we call our children do grow up and sprout their wings.  It is not always easy to let them go (even if it is just to school). :)

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Dayton Air Show – Blue Angels!

by admin on July 8, 2012

I don’t know how hot it was yesterday in NY but in OH it was 102° with the heat index it felt like 115°, but that did not stop us!

Yesterday and today there is the Dayton Airshow with the Blue Angels flying!  I have always wanted to see them and boy was it awesome!  I wish I had my camera ready when it first started they flew right over our head and were so close I could see the pilots.

What an awesome flying show to see.

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